Virgos are notorious for being uptight when it comes to their everyday lives, but according to Cosmopolitan, they should be known for being one of the best signs when it comes to sex. In fact, this trait is a direct counterpart to their sign, the virgin (via The Insightful Psychics). The stars are funny that way. Still, sometimes a Virgo can come off as distant because they require a strong bond, so the first thing a Virgo can do is remain in the moment. Their partner wants to feel their connection; they want to feel wholehearted passion.
Furthermore, a Virgo can overthink when it comes to the bedroom, per Your Tango. We know that Virgos like to please, but if they get lost in this endeavor, they’ll not only seem distant but also find themselves not enjoying the moment. They may even wind up doing what their partner doesn’t like because they’re overthinking. Virgos love sex, so they simply need to ensure that they don’t overthink while in the bedroom. Trust us: Your partner is just happy to have quality time with you.
At the same time, Virgos need to let go of their organizational skills in the bedroom. While this can be helpful in deciphering what your partner likes, it can derail your sex if you’re worried about making a mess, the time, or any other factor. This is ultimately the bane of a Virgo’s existence, with everything boiling down to them needing to be in the moment more and generally letting loose. This time is your chance to blow off steam and feel good; organizational rules don’t apply here!